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Principles of Parenthood

 

Man of God please fulfill your role as a father, here are some principles:

 

Male headship as father and husband is part of God’s design. Deuteronomy 11:18-21Deuteronomy 11:18-21
Spanish: Biblia Reina Valera - revisión de 1995 - RVR95

18 »Por tanto, pondréis estas mis palabras en vuestro corazón y en vuestra alma, las ataréis como señal en vuestra mano y serán como insignias entre vuestros ojos. 19 Las enseñaréis a vuestros hijos, hablando de ellas cuando te sientes en tu casa, cuando andes por el camino, cuando te acuestes y cuando te levantes, 20 Las escribirás en los postes de tu casa y en tus puertas,n 21 para que sean vuestros días, y los días de vuestros hijos, tan numerosos sobre la tierra que Jehová juró a vuestros padres que les había de dar, como los días de los cielos sobre la tierra.

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Dads have a vital role in bringing strength and stability to the home. The father is the priest of his family, as spiritual leader he should involve his family in teaching God’s Word and praying together.  Fathers are to take the responsibility for the spiritual leadership of the family according to the guidelines of the Word—praying, giving, loving, serving, caring and strong leadership. Fathers have the opportunity, as no one else, to be models in living color of both attitude and action of those things they seek to communicate.

 

 

Love your wife passionately. Ephesians 5:25Ephesians 5:25
Spanish: Biblia Reina Valera - revisión de 1995 - RVR95

25 Maridos, amad a vuestras mujeres,w así como Cristo amó a la iglesiax y se entregó a sí mismo por ella,y

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Because not many models of exemplary parents, young people today do not know what qualities to look for in a man, and the boys do not know how to treat a woman.  Daughters are going to look for young man to show the same level of commitment and respect that you reflect, and your children will treat their girlfriends and wives in the same way they see to treat your wife. Let your children see you share love and affection with their mother. They’re getting ready for one of the biggest races of life: marriage and a family, and the best preparation is to live with a father who loves his mother.

 

 

Be a man of integrity, otherwise your words will fall on deaf ears. Titus 2:7-8Titus 2:7-8
Spanish: Biblia Reina Valera - revisión de 1995 - RVR95

7 Preséntate tú en todo como ejemplo de buenas obras;h en la enseñanza, mostrando integridad,i seriedad, 8 palabra sanaj e irreprochable, de modo que el adversario se avergüence y no tenga nada malo que decir de vosotros.k

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As behaves behind closed doors, it’s like you are. If you sing in the choir on Sundays and yells at his wife all week, so talk about kindness and affection will count for nothing in the eyes of the children. When commits to do something with their children, do everything in its power to carry it out?

 

 

The importance of your children for you can be measured by the time spent with them.  Proverbs 22:6Proverbs 22:6
Spanish: Biblia Reina Valera - revisión de 1995 - RVR95

6 Instruye al niño en su camino, y ni aun de viejo se apartará de él.f

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No matter what we say, children know that we spend time with things and people that are most important to us. Remember this when you are deciding.Whatever your working program, it is the responsibility of dad to find time to be alone with their children.  Find out what interests each (each child has different tastes).

 

 

As a parent make your child feel how much it’s worth to you, which will serve them for the rest of theirlives. Proverbs 29:17Proverbs 29:17
Spanish: Biblia Reina Valera - revisión de 1995 - RVR95

17 Corrige a tu hijo y te dará descanso, y dará alegría a tu alma.m

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The way children perceive their value in the eyes of his father strongly influences their lives. A man leaves his mark on the lives of their children when he praises them for something well done, and inspires and encourages further effort. However, the opposite is also true.  Never insult their children with names that degrading or debase; coming from dad, these arrows can produce deep wounds. Refrain from any disruptive behavior in their presence.

 

 

Communicate as a family. Proverbs 4:2-4Proverbs 4:2-4
Spanish: Biblia Reina Valera - revisión de 1995 - RVR95

2 Yo os doy buena enseñanza; por eso, no descuidéis mi instrucción. 3 Yo también fui un hijo para mi padre, delicado y único a los ojos de mi madre. 4 Él me enseñaba, diciendo: “Retén mis razones en tu corazón, guarda mis mandamientos y vivirás”.c

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A close family makes children feel safe. Share at least one meal a family where they can discuss the issues of the day. Spend one night a week together as a family (not watching TV). No need to spend much money, you can play together, taking a walk or going to the park. During the times shared with family, the hardest thing for parents is learning to listen.  Fathers love to give advice, but just listening to the children to learn what their hearts need.

 

 

Understand your responsibility. Psalms 78:5-8Psalms 78:5-8
Spanish: Biblia Reina Valera - revisión de 1995 - RVR95

5 Él estableció testimonio en Jacob y puso ley en Israel, la cual mandó a nuestros padres que la notificaran a sus hijos; 6 para que lo sepa la generación venidera, los hijos que nazcan; y los que se levanten lo cuenten a sus hijos,e 7 a fin de que pongan en Dios su confianza y no se olviden de las obras de Dios; que guarden sus mandamientos 8 y no sean como sus padres, generación terca y rebelde; generación que no dispuso su corazón, ni cuyo espíritu fue fiel para con Dios.f

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Your responsibility as a parent is to be present, this is someone in your home that will survive and be a worthy representative of who you are. The pressure of dealing with one crisis after another and trying to make ends meet, we easily distracted to devote time to this mission. It’s not fair to the wives when father come home so tired of their jobs, friendships and social activities that do not have joy and energy for the children. If one of them was disciplined by his mother that day, a father should take the child apart and say, “I understand that you were disciplined by mom today, what was the problem? How will you react next time?”

 

 

Be realistic and admit your weaknesses.Ephesians 6:4Ephesians 6:4
Spanish: Biblia Reina Valera - revisión de 1995 - RVR95

4 Y vosotros, padres, no provoquéis a ira a vuestros hijos,d sino criadlos en disciplina y amonestación del Señor.

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Pride makes parents fear that people will think they are weak, instead of being in control. However, our children do not need to see only our successes, they need to see that when we hurt others, we seek to restore, that when we are wrong in our decisions, we face the issue responsibly.

 

 

Discipline means to develop character, not to vent anger.Hebrews 12:5-8Hebrews 12:5-8
Spanish: Biblia Reina Valera - revisión de 1995 - RVR95

5 y habéis ya olvidadof la exhortación que como a hijos se os dirige, diciendo: «Hijo mío, no menosprecies la disciplina del Señor ni desmayes cuando eres reprendido por él, 6 porque el Señor al que ama, disciplina,g y azota a todo el que recibe por hijo».h 7 Si soportáis la disciplina,i Dios os trata como a hijos; porque ¿qué hijo es aquel a quien el padre no disciplina? 8 Pero si se os deja sin disciplina, de la cual todos han sido participantes, entonces sois bastardos, no hijos.

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Don’t discipline your child when you are angry, take time to calm down. Children need to know that discipline and love are not opposites. Discipline is not punishment, it can involve pain, but the purpose is correction and development. We want the children to know that when we take away privileges or should be punished, we don’t doit to torment them but that later in life they will not have behavior patterns that impair.

 

 

Do not overprotect, let the children learn the law that you reap what you sow.Galatians 6:7Galatians 6:7
Spanish: Biblia Reina Valera - revisión de 1995 - RVR95

7 No os engañéis; Dios no puede ser burlado, pues todo lo que el hombre siembre, eso también segará,g

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Learning that “you reap what you sow” is very important to becoming adult. Fathers don’t want the child to do the right thing because he ordered it, but to reason itself why something can be a bad choice.  Unless the children suffer the consequences of their decisions, they will never be able to take proper and reasonable decisions for themselves.

 

 

Do not be afraid to show affection. John 3:35John 3:35
Spanish: Biblia Reina Valera - revisión de 1995 - RVR95

35 El Padre ama al Hijo y ha entregado todas las cosas en su mano.x

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Tender words and affection are important. Studies show that when children do not experience this affection, they seek ways to self-destruct.  Do not go a day without a father telling his children: “I love you”. Every day can be the last time we have the opportunity.

 

 

It takes a lot of energy to build the lives that God has entrusted the parents. Father need to do everything he can with the time for the kids to never have to look back and think, “If I had spent more time with them, or if I praised more, or if I had said how much I loved …”

 

Children be of great joy to your father…. Proverbs 10:1Proverbs 10:1
Spanish: Biblia Reina Valera - revisión de 1995 - RVR95

SEGUNDA COLECCIÓN: PROVERBIOS DE SALOMÓN 10 1 Los proverbiosa de Salomón.b El hijo sabio alegra al padre, pero el hijo necio es la tristeza de su madre.c

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