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“You are a Jewel in his Crown”

 

Courtship follows the mutual agreement to commit to one another – it is in the decisive turning toward the agreed-upon goal of the marriage altar. It is a period of laying a foundation and preparing your life together after marriage. But dating? Well, if you do date, use the time wisely to gather facts:

 

1. Check out the fabric. Is the person mate material? Does this man have an intimate relationship with the Father through Jesus Christ? Does he care what God thinks about his behavior? Is he accountable to God as well as another co-laborer in the faith? Accountability is an important factor. It is imperative to maintaining a committed relationship. Is your potential spouse a member of the same family – the family of God? Scripture is clear on this: “Do not be yoked together with unbelievers.

 

For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?” (2 Cor 6:142 Cor 6:14
Spanish: Biblia Reina Valera - revisión de 1995 - RVR95

Somos templo del Dios vivientei 14 No os unáis en yugo desigual con los incrédulos,j porque ¿qué compañerismo tiene la justicia con la injusticia? ¿Y qué comunión, la luz con las tinieblas?

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). You need to have common interests and values and agree on the essentials of living day to day. You have a similar spiritual walk. You eat the same spiritual diet. You enjoy a lot of similar things. You have like interests, like goals in life, like opinions on basic life issues. You have had like experiences in your background. Though there is some truth to the idiom that opposites attract, like-minded folks fare better together. Furthermore, does he want to get married? If you want to be married and your dreamboat isn’t interested, don’t waste your time. So if a guy says he’s not looking for anything serious, take his words seriously. If he’s not going in your direction, get off the bus & wait for the right one.

 

2. Does this man want you? Is he pursuing you? The man who is right for you will pursue you, and God’s hand in the relationship will be clear. No guessing, no fleeces, no dead ends. Scripture says: “He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord” (Prov 18:22Prov 18:22
Spanish: Biblia Reina Valera - revisión de 1995 - RVR95

22 El que encuentra esposa encuentra el bien y alcanza la benevolencia de Jehová.p

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). Note – who finds whom? THE MAN FINDS THE WIFE. From the beginning of time, God has transported men & women across the world in order to put them together. At the RIGHT TIME, He will bring that man on the scene and he will find you. In God’s perfect design, the man is the one who recognizes his mate. Adam has no problem recognizing that Eve was his missing rib. You do not need to strategically place yourself anywhere. You don’t have to help a guy out because he’s shy! Men will do whatever they have to do to get what they truly want. The man in your life should recognize you as the pearl of great price in his life and be willing to do whatever he must in order to gain your hand. If he is passive about gaining your affections, take it as a sign that he is not interested. Many suggested that it is a good idea to marry a man who loves you first.

 

As cold as that sounds, it actually might be scriptural if you stop to think about it:

 

“We love him because he first loved us”  us=church (1 John 4:191 John 4:19
Spanish: Biblia Reina Valera - revisión de 1995 - RVR95

19 Nosotros lo amamos a élv porque él nos amó primero.

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).   “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her…. ” (Ephesians 5:25Ephesians 5:25
Spanish: Biblia Reina Valera - revisión de 1995 - RVR95

25 Maridos, amad a vuestras mujeres,w así como Cristo amó a la iglesiax y se entregó a sí mismo por ella,y

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).  Until then, take the ultimate chill pill. You don’t need a bunch of men in your life to make you feel all right about yourself. You need only one mans your man; the one God has selected to select you. And trust me, the right man at the wrong time can be just as awful as the wrong man at any time. So trust God’s timing in this. He is the ultimate matchmaker. Relax, sit pretty and allow you to be found. Again – WAIT until the man voices his intentions. He should take the lead in establishing the relationship. You may have an inkling that he is the one, but God will use the man to set the tone of the relationship. Allow him the opportunity to woo you – this is your first act of submission. Jesus set the standard for all men to follow. They should love us first. And they should lead the relationship.

 

YOU ARE ONE SPECIAL, BRILLIANT GEM, BELIEVE IT SISTER!

 

 

 

 

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